what they are saying
Every voice here belongs to a high-functioning leader who was already capable, accomplished, and strong. Coaching didn’t “fix” them. It gave them space to think, to see, and to grow at their edge.
That’s the power of Growth at the Edge.
I came in burned out and uncertain. I felt like I was holding everything together but had no vision beyond just getting through. Dave didn’t hand me a solution or a plan — he created a space where my own clarity emerged. By the end of our work, I had articulated a 10-year vision that felt both inspiring and grounding. It wasn’t theoretical; it became the compass for every decision I made moving forward. The surprising part? It felt simple, like the vision had been there all along, waiting for me to see it.
For years, I tied my self-worth to outcomes. If the business did well, I felt good. If it didn’t, I spiraled. On the outside, I was running a successful company. On the inside, I was anxious, exhausted, and reactive. In conversation with Dave, I realized there’s space between who I am and the results I create. That shift gave me freedom I didn’t know was possible. I started leading from confidence and presence instead of fear and urgency — and ironically, the results got better when they stopped defining me.
I thought leadership meant control. I carried everything myself, kept my team in line, and thought that was strength. It was exhausting. Through our conversations, I saw that leadership could be different — about agreements, trust, and clarity rather than control. I stopped holding so tightly and started trusting my team. That shift transformed not only how they saw me, but how they stepped up. They began owning outcomes in a way I never imagined.
I was drowning in responsibility, always reacting to the next fire. Dave didn’t give me a magic tool or checklist. Instead, he helped me notice what was driving me to always react. Once I saw that, I had the choice to pause. That pause created space for me to lead from a calmer, more creative place — and my team felt the difference immediately.
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Imagine taking this same practice out of the office — learning to pause and regain presence while shooting a bow and arrow, where every release requires clarity instead of control.
I thought I was hiring a coach who would give me advice, strategies, maybe a checklist. What I found instead was a thought partner. Dave doesn’t hand you answers — he thinks with you, questions with you, and creates space for insight to surface. I ended up growing as a leader and as a person. Having someone in my corner, not to fix me but to partner with me, changed everything.
I came in with a head full of competing ideas. Everything felt possible, but nothing felt clear. Dave didn’t cut through the noise for me — instead, he helped me hear myself. The surprising thing was how simple it felt in the end. I walked out with clarity and decisiveness, and I couldn’t stop laughing at how tangled I’d been. It was like flipping a switch from confusion to certainty.
I came in skeptical. Honestly, I didn’t think coaching was for me. But within minutes, I realized this was a different kind of conversation. There was no performance, no pretending. I ended up saying things I hadn’t admitted even to myself, and that opened up a level of clarity I didn’t expect. I walked away knowing what I needed to do next — and more importantly, why.
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For some leaders, the most powerful clarity comes not in a room but on a climb, at altitude, where presence and courage are non-negotiable.
The way Dave listened helped me hear myself more clearly than I have in years. I came in expecting to be challenged — and I was — but not in the way I thought. He didn’t push harder; he opened up space. That space let me sort out what really mattered, and for the first time in a long time, I felt grounded in my own decisions.
I expected strategies and frameworks. What I got was perspective. We worked through challenges that looked tactical on the surface, but what changed me was seeing how I was showing up. I left with a shift in how I think, not just what I do. That’s what made the difference — the outcomes started changing because my perspective did.
The questions felt almost too simple at first. But the impact was profound. I walked away lighter, clearer, and more focused. I came in looking for tactical answers; I left realizing that when I slow down enough to listen, my own clarity comes through. It’s a completely different way of leading.
When we first started working together a few years ago, my business mostly depended on one client. I was earning $300K/year, grinding nonstop, wondering if I should just take a full-time job again. I hadn’t unplugged on a vacation in years, weekends were swallowed by work, and honestly, I didn’t even like what I was doing. Working with Dave changed that. I hired two employees, grew the business to over $1.3M with multiple clients, and am now working on reclaiming my own time and time with family. The best part? I actually enjoy the work again. I even texted Dave after a meeting, ‘That meeting was fun — did you ever expect me to say that?’”
I came in with the story that I had to keep grinding, keep pushing, even though I was already exhausted. What I realized in our work is that I didn’t need more strategies — I needed a different relationship to myself. For the first time in years, I stopped reacting and started creating. That shift has changed not only my leadership, but how I feel in my own life.
I thought the value would come from what Dave said. Instead, the value came from how I heard myself in the space he created. I walked in tangled and walked out clear. It wasn’t about fixing anything — it was about seeing differently. That’s what gave me the courage to make choices I’d been avoiding.
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Sometimes the best way to see differently is to step out of the familiar. Imagine backpacking into wilderness for a day or two, letting the simplicity of nature reset your perspective and bring clarity.
It might sound silly, but when I thought about meeting with Dave, I thought – I need a miracle. But, I wanted to be realistic, for both of us. So I came up with some goals for our time…And then we met, and within the first 20 minutes of our session, I could literally breath easier than I had in months – months! It was a literal weight off my shoulders, and a true shift in perspective. His work is a gift that keeps on giving, and in my case, really felt like a miracle.
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